Friday, October 4, 2013

8 Sexual Things Femdom Wife Can Do That Vanilla Wife Can't.


In femdom marriage, the dominant wife has privileges that vanilla wife can only dream of.
Personally, Since I got into femdom, my sex life pleasure increased dramatically.
 
The Femdom lifestyle allows you to explore and enjoy new sexual pleasures that are "forbidden" in vanilla relationships. Of course, you will require to release all the mind constraints gathered over the vanilla years.

Here is my list of eight sexual acts that femdom wife can do, and vanilla one can't.



1. You can fuck him hard!

It is such a great fun to fuck him. Personally, I love the Feeldoe for this purpose. It is built to bring the woman satisfaction when penetrating his ass. Since you are the dominant wife, and he is your slave, you can do it anytime you like.

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Shut up bitch! , I'm about to cum.



2. You can turn him into your sex toy.

There are many devices you can attach to your husband and make him your sex slave. He will become an object, and his only purpose is to please you. Exactly like any sex toy you have, but this human toy can follow voice commands…

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This is the proper size I need now. You see darling. You can still be useful for my sexual pleasures.




3. You can pleasure yourself anytime.


Most of the women masturbate when the husband is out. As a dominant wife, you can buy any sex toy you desire and play with it anytime you want, even if he is at home. I usually send him to do some house chores. It makes me feel incredible to masturbate and know he is working hard now to serve me.

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Honey, don’t forget to crawl and clean the floor and under the table in the kitchen, I will call you when I'm done to wash my vibrator and put it back to the drawer.




4. You can train him to be your perfect oral slave.

Since you are the dominant wife, and he is your subject, he will eat you on demand anytime.
It is really worth spending the time and train him how to lick you. He is yours and unlike a vanilla husband, he will do all efforts to follow your instructions in order to please you.


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Good boy, you know what I want. I will punish you hard  if you won't do it right.
Make your goddess happy, now!




5. You can have sex with more than one sex slave. (with or without her husband)

Well, more than one man in bed is incredible only if you are dominating them, else ....it is not much fun.
You are the goddess, and they both (or more) are focusing in your pleasure. They are here for this purpose only, to serve you.
There is a hidden competition between both, who will satisfy you better…


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Easy boys, there is enough of me for everyone. Eat your goddess pussy slaves! Make me happy or you will be punished!




6. You decide when he is allowed to cum, by locking him in chastity device.

Chastity device is a powerful tool! You truly control his cock, and it's wonderful to know it is caged.
He is carrying it, but you are the owner. No one besides you decide when it will be released.
The most precious thing to any male is his cock. Losing control on it for you, The key holder, will make him your obedient bitch.

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Sorry, but I'm not happy with your obedience. You will not get any release for the next two weeks.
Now I want to hear you say, "thank you my goddess wife, I will be more obedience"




7. You can have a lover.

You can have a lover, and have your husband serve you. Having one man kissing you, and another one worshiping you, will make you feel like a real goddess.
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Well, I trained my husband to obey and serve me. I'm very powerful and men tend to surrender to me.
By the way, you know you will join my husband as my slave eventually. It’s inevitable. I have power over men. Once you get addicted to me, you will do anything for me. It’s like a spell you cannot resist.




8. You can force your husband to suck dicks.
The power to make him suck a cock and swallow cum, is such a turn on. 
His head is in your hand, and you are pushing forcefully, making him your slut.
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Yes...put it all in your mouth. Exactly as I trained you my dildo. I want you to swallow all his cum.
This will be your dinner for today.



Of course, there are more things to add to this list.
You can post a comment and suggest more things, and I will add all to my part two post.







66 comments:

  1. Hi Mistress,
    I love to be a slave, whose only purpose is to lick. Moreover i would like add two more things.
    Face slapping
    Ball busting

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  2. Thanks for your reply Anonymous slave :)

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    1. I was only 15 when I wanted to be a slave and now at 18 im a virgin just wishing for a dominant wife and especially a beautiful white wife (im brown btw) X

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    2. Well, It's time for you to find your owner.
      good luck.

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  3. I'm jealous...
    How can I meet slave male ?

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    1. Contact me and I will guide you.

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    2. I'll be pleased to be yours...

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    3. i was born to serve women,

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  4. Great post idea.
    I would add face-siting to the list.

    Slave Matt.
    .

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  5. Damn! I must train my husband to be my slave.
    I wonder if there is a way to make him love this fetish stuff. That could be great.
    My husband is not into it. He could be wonderful slave to me.

    Anna,

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    1. Perhaps you need to replace him with a man with strong sex drives....someone tall, muscular and skilled....me....

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    2. You said to contact n You would lead to way to be an owned naked slave

      slave barry

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    3. I posted a guide, try it :http://real-femdom.blogspot.com/2014/03/how-to-make-your-vanilla-husband-or.html

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    4. Anna:
      I was just like your husband until my wife talked me into trying male chastity. Having your wife own your dick is an extremely powerful motivation. I never thought I would gladly give in to all her crazy ideas like bondage, spanking, humiliation, hour long oral, daily foot messages, I never have any idea of what is next. But I am so glad I gave in. I love serving my Queen, my Wife.

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  6. My Wife is my Domme. I am permantly branded also i spend time locked in a cage and am whipped often and she is pleasured on command . She has complete control in every aspect of our lives , she controls the finaces and i do all the chores , im locked in chastiy and get to cum 3-5 times a yr if i'm obediant. I love my life and want to be hers more everyday ...she is everything to me. slave dj

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    1. Hello Damian,
      Thank for your comment :)
      I would love to hear more about your relationship.
      For how long are you married ? Did you start as your wife's salve ? was she a vanilla before she met you ?

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  7. Goddess Your exactly right and i'll bet You could find more things if Your got the time for it

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  8. One more I would humbly suggest for consideration:

    You can have him orally serve you wherever you want. While many men will only usually serve or worship your breasts and sometimes your pussy the dominant wife can direct where she wants it and for how long, whether she wants to be worshiped on her breasts, her pussy, her neck, or even her armpits, her feet, her buttocks, her ass, or her elbow if that is what She wants!

    (maybe a separate tip) She can also choose the location in terms of it not always being the bedroom. She can be served and worshiped on the couch, in the kitchen, the back seat of a car, stairs to the basement, a downtown alley, wherever she feels the urge and desire.

    This or these may be covered by 4 above but it may be helpful to point this out explicitly as separate items for women who have not considered all of the variety and possibilities of being in control (like with the rest of your wonderful list).

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    1. Thanks Multi for your wonderful comment.

      Regarding the location, it's a great idea... maybe I will expand about this topic in the future... by the way, a great locations is in the woods. I will add a post about it when I'll find a proper image.

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  9. your tips are really great. i will be gettin married in few months and want to implement them in my marriage.

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    1. Good luck. let me know if you managed to implement successfully....

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  10. i am a 58 years old slave and i dream to get married in a femdom lifestyle, i am very sweet and very submissive, looking for a sincere commitment and be owned until the end, can you help my my Goddess?

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    1. Hey Michel.

      You have to find yourself a female partner for life first. You need establish a good relationship with trust and love.
      After that introduce your abilities to be a good salve to her slowly and gradually. :)
      Anyway , You can contact me once you have a relationship and I will give you some advices.

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  11. I gave my wife a sex slave contract for her birthday , and she never looked back , smiles
    She started by using me as her toy , thigh strap on , face strap on , to pleasure herself .
    Than she made me beg her to be allowed to suck and the strap on dildo , she made me buy them and than suck on them
    Last year , she tied my hands behind my back and blindfolded me ,
    She wrote ( Fuck Toy Slut ) on my chest and made me suck her strap on I did not know that she had the web cam on
    She drew up a new contract for 2014 the changes allow her to take on a new lover , and to make me into her cuckold husband
    I will be allowed to sign this new contract tonight at midnight only if I suck a real cock through a glory hole that she had cut out in our
    bedroom , I know once I do this there is no way back
    PS
    I love my new life

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    1. That's wonderful. As I see it, you are fulfilling your destiny, to serve your wife.
      I'm sure you already know it, but make sure that the contract includes her commitment to keep you her slave and to take care of your well being.
      This is the right way. You give yourself to her, and she is taking care of you.
      Besides, it will allow you to totally surrender her, without worrying.

      Happy new year ( and Contract...)

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  12. Goddess, my wife of 25 years has decided that she wants me to strip for her friends and her and worship their feet while she hires male strippers ( with large cocks) to enjoy themselves with. I love my wife but am not sure I can handle the embarrassment. I don't want her to start cheating on me , but if I don't comply, she has hinted that this might be an option.

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    1. Assuming you have a healthy D/S relationship with your wife,are you also excited about it? Or just embarrassed ?

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  13. My Wife is my Domi. We been married since 4 years . i become her slave since our third anniversary that is on 11th March 2013. i spend time locked in a cage and am whipped often and she is pleasured on command . she controls the finaces and i do all the chores , im locked in chastiy and get to cum only if she want me. I love my life and want to be hers more everyday . I feel proud that I am one of Lucky man who able to serve his Domi Wife. btw her bday is on 24th march . I want to Gift her something to make her feel that she is most dearest and loveable and she mean lot to me. Slave PK

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  14. i so wish my wife was a Domme like you! i have never served in this way, but so NEED to!

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  15. You forgot the most important, you can force you're slave to suck cock and watch him take anal for fun AND profit, sell his little bitch ass ladies!!!
    My mistress began forcing me to pleasure her boyfriend on occasion, (he is bisexual) and now allows him to have me anytime he desires :-(
    This usually means a sore ass for me but he is bigger than me and takes what he wants and if I forget and complain... Mistress WILL paddle my ass HARD for that! Really guys, mistress loves to watch me resist and get screwed anyway and honestly, it's not THAT bad. I mean she has hurt me worse with a strap-on, physically anyway.
    All you wanna be slaves out there, when she let's another man USE you or sells you're "sweet mouth" then tell us how good a slave you are :-)
    I earned my mistress 100 dollars by performing annilingus on her best friends husband while they had sex, that's pretty good training my mistress says!
    So don't forget mistress's, a good slave can earn you money and you know you LOVE to watch him have to perform for you especially when he is straight!!!! #1 best thing about a male slave, watching him suck his first cock for YOU! Enjoy ladies!!

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  16. My wife is my mistress, she has owned me for 17 years. She gradually gave playful spankings and little scoldings in the beginning, now I earn money occasionally for her performing gay sex. She has a boyfriend who I must service as well and I can't honestly remeber the last time my ass wasn't purple and bruised, AND we couldn't be happier about the situation!
    Slowly over time she wants more and more stimulation, what will my slave do for me before I must punish and encourage him she asks herself? Early in our relationship I ALWAYS just took the paddle, over the years I have learned better... She is gonna paddle me either way, if I obey without hesitation, it hurts less and I stand a chance of getting to be pleasured a little. If I resist and make a scene, I regret it dearly! I'm talking about being blindfolded and gagged while getting a whipped to tears only to find out later my best friend did the whipping because he was promised a whole day of oral sex by my mistress.. She gave it to him also, about a month later she tied him up during sex and then made me perform oral sex on him all day, yes, he finished twice and she has pictures.
    Ladies, whip and fuck you're slaves everyday, if you don't someone like me wil. Besides, whats better than having you're boyfriend whip you're husband until he cries and then watching them perform for you and you're friends??? NOTHING, nothing is better, at least for me!!!!

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  17. i want to become a slave and need a perfect mistress
    email vishal_rks@rediffmail.com

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  18. I need a slave very obedient email : "laura-sousah @ hotmail.com"

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  19. Hello this is awesome,
    I really want to find a misstress well in Australia.
    It's bit hard to find some one like that over here.

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    1. Well, I hope you find a mistress or a vanilla that be interested to discover this world with you.

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  20. Congrats for the blog, I found some amazing posts over here. If im not wrong every time more and more couples all over the world are discovering the great benefits and fun of Femdom relationships, which is great. I am doing some progress with my girlfriend, starting with T/D, facesitting, slapping, etc. She looks excited with the idea but as far as is me who has introduced her to this "world" I guess it will take some time. Any tips in this sense are more than welcome. Cheers!

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    1. Thank you. That's great you having some progress with your girl.
      Good luck.My tip : Always give her positive feedback, So she will enjoy it more.

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  21. Dear Goddess,

    I have been married to the same woman for fifteen years. For the entirety of our marriage our sex has been nothing but vanilla. "Kinky" Sex for us has consisted of her donning some lingerie or maybe sitting on my face if I do some serious begging. In regular life, my wife, Donmonique (perfect name for a domme female, right?), is an extremely assertive woman, but when it comes to sex, the only thing for which she's ever expressed a desire is straight fucking. I would love nothing more than for her to allow the dominant tendencies that are so clearly evident in her daily life to carry over into the bedroom and make me her sissy bitch.

    I am sad to inform you (and thankful to you for your patience in continuing to read what is turning into a long-winded, grousing belly ache), however, that there are several impediments that I'm facing. To begin with, while she is a very accepting person, she, for instance, turns away from the sight of two men kissing. From everything that she's said about men in our fifteen year relationship, it's clear that she believes that a man ought to behave in every aspect of his life as men traditionally have. Secondly, we were both the victims of sexual abuse in our childhoods, hers far worse than mine. How exactly that affects us I don't know, but it undoubtedly does. Also, maybe the only area of her life in which she is not surpassingly confident is her body. She is 5'4" and weighs Somewhere around 180 lbs, so she is a plus-size woman, which she knows that I like, but she is by no means obese. For some reason, though, when we have sex, the lights are out. It was months after we first had sex that she finally allowed me to go down on her. Why? Not because she dislikes having her pussy licked, but rather, she was embarrassed about being a squirter. It took me years to convince her that I loved eating her pussy and couldn't think of much I'd rather do than drink her cum.

    Finally, I lightly broached the subject about a year and a half ago one night when we were both intoxicated, confessing to her that my biggest fantasy was for her to strap one on and rail my fucking brains out. Her response was confusing to some degree. "That's what you were so nervous about?? No two people have exactly the same fantasy. You shouldn't feel embarrassed." That's it. Not another word was ever spoken on the subject. My take was that while she was not disgusted by me for having made such an admission, she certainly wasn't intrigued, turned-on or otherwise interested in participating in such activities with me. She was pretty ripped when I told her, so I suppose she might not remember, but that would be a first.

    So, I'm looking for some advice, Goddess, if I could prevail upon you for your expert opinion. I value my marriage above all else and I will sacrificeanything to protect it, even sexual fulfillment. Do you think it's worth the risk to lay all of my cards on the table, or do you think it's likely that doing so will damage or destroy our marriage? I eagerly await your reply, Goddess.




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    1. HI Desperate,
      Giving up or laying all your cards on the tables are both the wrong way.
      Contact me via the "Contact Form" on the right side and I will give you some advice.

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  22. Hi Goddess. It would be a pleasure to serve you. Here is an idea, make your slave wear your panties or make them go and buy their own lingerie to wear all the time.

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  23. Do every female would like to have an obediant and submissive husband?
    What is your opinion goddess?

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    1. No. some women love to be submissive.
      I even own one female slave. ( besides my husband)

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  24. Goddess,
    Over the past few years I have begun to fantasize about female domination. My wife who I love want's nothing to do with it. She says she expects her man to be the dominant one. I do not want to cheat on her, so how do I convince her that this is something she would like?

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    1. Read my post .it might help you :
      http://real-femdom.blogspot.co.il/2013/09/how-to-make-your-wife-or-girlfriend_7.html

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  25. Goddess,
    I want my fiance to be my owner, but she is a little timid when it comes to domination. She likes certain things (face sitting especially) but not others (ballbusting, using a dildo on me) How can I get her to realize her full potential as my goddess and owner?

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  26. Wow. Something about that first clip grabbed my soul! Are there women who truly enjoy doing that? I have long known i am a sub. But until that clip.... i never knew how much i would love to submit thusly to the Woman who would truly do that because she truly really enjoyed

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  27. You could just as well entitled this segment as eight sexual things femdom slave can do as these are all activities that a true slave would be honored to perform and enjoy. I do not know how you feel about it but a ninth activity you could add could be using the slave as a personal toilet. From experience I know at least one Goddess who derived great pleasure from this activity while maintaining complete control. It is positive for the slave also as it demonstrates total devotion to the Goddess.


    ould be using your slave as a personal toilet. From personal experience I know Goddesses enjoy this activity as it reinforces control over the slave and brings pleasure. It is also positive for the slave as it demonstrates devotion to the Goddess.

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    1. I agree that it demonstrates total devotion to the Goddess.
      but this post is about sexual pleasure.

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  28. Goddess, new to the femdom world along with my boyfriend. I just recently turned 18, any ideas for super newbies? We are open to almost everything but having another man/woman in the bedroom, the cuckold lifestyle is a bit too extreme for us. But, otherwise we are quite open to ideas!!!

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    1. What kind of ideas are looking for ? what do you like ?

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  29. I am a very lucky guy. My wife and I enjoy all kinds of games, we swing, have three(and more)somes, we share control and like to switch it up when we play. I am super excited as tomorrow night she is going to work me over and that usually involves me wearing her panties and having a medium sized plug in all day. When she gets home we will go out to run errands and I will have to have the plug in the entire time. When we get home later she will take to our bed, blindfold me, cuff my hands at my back and ties up my cock so tight it swells up and changes color, this usually leads to a blowjob with an edge. Then the ball gag comes out and she gets the big toys and mercilessly fucks my ass and then grinds her pussy on my face. After this she rides me until we both cum and then she makes me lick her clean and eat all of my cum, sometimes I'm lucky enough to get her piss at the end but that's only if I've been a good boy.

    Happy times all enjoy!

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  30. Goddess, is it a good idea to get into a femdom relationship and, when he's a good boy, let him dominate you? Or is it risking the slave relationship? Occasionally I want to be slammed against a wall and fucked but most of the time I want to have all the control.

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    1. It's a risk only if you don't do it right.
      it's not a price for him for obedient or being a good boy. use the "contact me" and I will explain to you in private how to do it.

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  31. Bows Mistress. I am EvA a married sissy but my wife dies not know. I want to submit to her and gave her as ny Mistress. Any recommendations on how I can achieve it? Thanxxx EvA

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    1. tell her you like to be under her control :)
      you can show her my blog.

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  32. Number five and eight i love being controlled and made to do the mistress's bidding

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  33. Goddess, I recently met a man who wants me to own him. He would like to submit to me in every way. I'm interested and find myself more & more turned on when he asks but I don't know where to begin having been vanilla my entire life. Any advice

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    1. Read around and try what you like..
      If you need specific advice, use the "contact me" button and we will take it privately.

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  34. I need some tips
    Im a female
    Tips for my husband

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    1. You can use the "contact me" on the top right side of my blog and ask your questions.

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  35. I am always surprised when I hear of wives wanting to served, but having vanilla husbands. My wife is the archetype of the innocent vanilla wife, while I long to serve her as described in this thread. We are so different... Anybody have any advice for that situation? I do love her, and put her desires above mine (hence the ultra-vanilla lifestyle), but is there any way to introduce light femdom or even just plain oral into our lifestyle that doesn't mean I'm putting my wishes first or tramping on her wishes?

    I feel like the very act of introducing anything evenly remotely related to femdom intrinsically contradicts the whole idea of putting her first, of serving her.

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